I’ve never had an orgasm before…
not even during sex…
what are the chances that I might have female sexual dysfunction
not saying that that’s what I think is wrong, but it is a possibility
but I’ve never masterbated before, I just wouldn’t feel right doing it
but I have been fingered multiple times, still nothing
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October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Start masturbating at once.
And,
Get a picture of your favorite movie star to look at it while you’re doing it.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Go to a doctor……………
NOW!!!!!!!!!!
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Talk to your guy.
Try new stuff.
It’ll happen.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
you should try to relax more, and dont think about it.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Most women don’t orgasm from vaginal stimulation. I think it’s a good idea to masterbate, you need to figure out what excites you… Do you know about your clit?
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
you can’t have an orgasm through vaginal stimulation (well some people thin you can but the vast majority of women can’t) you have to have clitoral stimulation, it’s often the only way. and masterbating is very healthy. releases tension and stress. Also some women have trouble orgasming even when their partner stimulates their clitoris because they don’t feel relaxed enough. Just try masterbating.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Chances of having an orgasm through plain old penetrative sex are low for women. Being fingered usually also does not result in orgasms as the clitoris (the most sensitive bit) is that part that needs the stimulation.
Without masturbating it is doubtful you would have one.
There is a really good book written for women called "becoming orgasmic" maybe you could try that.
You really need to explore yourself to see what you like and dont like. Go on the net and check out female anatomy to see what bit is what. Search some how to have orgasm sites.
You do not need a vibrator or insert anything to have an orgasms. Most women masturbate – it is normal, healthy and wonderful for your sex life
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
The fact that you stated you have never masturbated before because "I just wouldn’t feel right doing it" is a major clue as to what’s going on. It appears it’s probably more of a mental block as opposed to a physical problem. You might want to talk to a sex therapist or other psychologist to get at the root of why you feel the way you do. Orgasms can be realised if you truly let yourself get into the moment both physically and mentally, but if you’re blocking them mentally then they will never happen. There are also many good books that you may want to consider reading of you cannot afford therapy.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Most women don’t orgasm through vaginal intercourse, simply because THE organ for female sexual pleasure is the clitoris, and it’s not that close to the vagina. There are some positions that can increase your chance to orgasm through intercourse, or through being able to simultaneously have intercourse and stimulate your clitoris or have your partner stimulate it for you.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Try the suggestions given and if you still can’t get it, put up a question again.