I’m looking to start playing the field after my gf broke up with me. I have always been a giver, putting my partners pleasure before my own. I am wondering how many women actually have an orgasm during their first sexual encounter with a new partner.
My previous girlfriend was easy, because we went a year before I made a move (she was with other guys, I’m patient with what I want). I was the 2nd guy to ever give her an orgasm, but I’ve heard that females are cerebral in this matter. I consider myself a good lover, but do put pressure on myself to perform well. Not a show, but satisfying my partner.
Am I being too hard on myself? How many women have orgasms with one time partners, and how big a deal is it to you compared to just the act? Sometimes I can be too cerebral.
Sex is always fun, I simply wish to please and be pleased.
I once heard that women shouldn’t fake because then we would never change. It took me until her to give a sh*t at all. When it seemed humanly possible haha
Dear Cindy,
Why not be proud of your accomplishments and intentions? Sounds like you aren’t having enough orgasms.
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February 14th, 2010 at 7:01 am
Bragger.
February 14th, 2010 at 7:01 am
Sounds like the world needs more guys like you.
February 14th, 2010 at 7:01 am
Sexual intercourse is suppose to be fun.
You’re turning it into a contest.
February 14th, 2010 at 7:01 am
Everyone is different. Sometimes it is hard with a new partner because you are not terribly relaxed. But sometimes, if you are in the mood it will be great.
Don’t worry about it. If you are hard on yourself your girl will feel bad if she doesn’t come. That’s why some women "fake it". They feel that the guy will be disappointed if they don’t come. So the best thing is to be honest and recognize that sometimes it takes time to learn each other’s likes.
February 14th, 2010 at 7:01 am
I’ve never had an orgasm during sex at all and it’s been 5.5 years.