I have heard that the older you get/ the more orgasms you have/ when you fall in love etc that your orgasms and sexual response "developes" and gets better. I had my first orgasm when i was 5 (yes 5! No joke) But at the time i didnt know what i was doing) Im now 24 so thats nearly 20 years of experience. I am very educated about the female orgasm and have read up on it LOADS. I have strong kegel muscles and a very loving and considerate partner who I am 100% comfortable and in love with. He is not my first. I have had a few sexual partners before him, and i was in love with the man i lost my virginity to. But i have yet to experience an orgasm that lasts more than about 2 seconds. Its purely clitoral i cant really feel much inside my vagina. I cannot have multiple orgasms either. They are very weak aswell. I have tried literally everything. I have used many techniques including building myself to nearly there and stopping several times but the end result is still the same. I have a few vibrators that make it EASIER for me to orgasm but the orgasm is no better. My boyfriend says he can clearly feel my g spot when fingering me and strong vaginal contractions but i litterally feel NOTHING! I invested in a g spot vibrator but again nothing. What could be wrong with me? I have never been sexually abused nor do i have any reason to believe that this is psycological. Answers off people who have been in the same situation and have actually found a solution would be much appriciated! I know that some women cant orgasm at all but sometimes the orgasms i DO have leave me feeling even more frustrated!
Hi thank you for all your answers so far…as for waiting a while between orgasms…tried it a few times and it didnt make difference 
I may not have made it clear that my partner CAN snd DOES make me orgasm by rubbing my clitoris durong sex or giving me oral…the problem is that the orgasms are so weak! I haven’t tried taking hormones…I have thought about it but im not sure how safe this is…might give it a try though. again thank you all!
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December 20th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
The only thing i can think of from the top of my head is that you may try some kind of female hormonal vitamins! This will increase estrogen in your body and could possibly help. Another thing that you could try is female excitement gel or cream. It comes in both I believe! Maybe you guys could try lots of foreplay!
December 20th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
sucks.for.you
try waiting a couple weeks without having a orgasm.
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December 20th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
lol,
from the experience of countless anatomy classes i can tell you that there is no such thing as a g-spot so i don’t know what your boyfriend if feeling
not many females feel what guys do, you just have to accept it. get your thrills in other ways, like by him spoiling you with a nice new porsche for giving him such a good time in bed
i used to get orgasms when i crossed one leg over the other, standing in line at the supermarket, until i had an abortion
December 20th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
Your man need to start playing with your clitoris a bit more! Loads of women can’t have an orgasm through sexual intercourse. Loads of foreplay would be a benefit.
lt feels amazing when he touches my gspot, l can’t describe it but you just pass out because it’s so overwhelming! But, know this really may not be a preference choice of yours, have you both considered anal sex? l felt powerful orgasms that way and it’s something l’ve never felt when having vaginal sex. You should talk this through with him about it and see a doctor or a sex therapist. There’s ALWAYS ways to get you to have orgasms and you will achieve one.
December 20th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
ARE WE THE SAME PERSON?
Reading you question makes me glad to know I am not the only one. I, like you, have been having orgasms before I even knew what they were! I actually can’t ever remember I time when I didn’t have them. But now I have the 2 second thing and it’s annoying. Even with my caring compassionate wonderful boyfriend. I just feel like I am missing out on something!
I don’t think that g-spot thing is unusual. It’s common for lots of women not to find much going on with it. I can feel mine and it feels good, but I never ever come close to orgasming that way.
My only tip is this: just relax about the whole issue. I mean, if no one had ever mentioned there’s anything else (stronger orgasms, multiple orgasms) would you still feel unsatified? What I do is that I try to focus on what I do feel instead of missing something that II’ve never even experienced.