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I’m a 37 year old female. I have never had an orgasm . How do I know if its me or the toys?

Tue, Dec 29, 2009

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I’ve tried the Jack Rabbit, the personal bullet, a larger metal but ribbed number and nothing works. I fear I may be frigid from waiting so long and was wondering if anyone had some tips on a product that could lift this curse.
Sorry, I forgot to add that I’m a virgin and want to stay that way until I meet the right man. But 37 years is a REALLY long time and I’ve been told if you can O on your own, you’ll make a better partner. Oh, and I went to see a shrink and found no abuse issues, just a puddgy girl with high morales. Morales were great in theory, but now I’m afraid I can’t do ‘it’ if I can’t even tackle the warm up. This is very serious, I don’t want to be a virgin forever and I want to enjoy it when it happens. Does anybody know a technique or toy that could help someone like me?

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17 Responses to “I’m a 37 year old female. I have never had an orgasm . How do I know if its me or the toys?”

  1. Wishywashy Says:

    For Goodness sakes, go find yourself a real man. There are many young men around who fantasize about mature ladies like you.

  2. JIBBA JABBA Says:

    well, first you have to be a real woman

  3. no ones here Says:

    gosh I feel bad it takes me soome good love making and sometimes I still can’t… I gets mine girl you need to gets urs!

  4. sigi01de Says:

    perhaps a psychiatrist can help, otherwise come along…..

  5. cascadingrainbows Says:

    oh dear, you’re in trouble..

    just keep up the good works—good luck!

  6. 185 Says:

    nothing esle cos i’m going to cure u with my long and wonder penis

  7. bigguu254 Says:

    first off toys dont work ma… u need a man to whisper things in ur ear… u need the right size… u need different positions… a toy cant pull ur hair, squeeze ur a-ss cheeks and yell who’s pu-ssy is dis… forget the toys and get urself a man… one u can train… lol

  8. worriedaboutyou Says:

    I have a "magic potion" that will work wonders heh heh heh!

  9. big brotha Says:

    maybe u’ve tried 2 many toyz, try it with a man (and let him do it), you’ll see it is a good sexual sensation

  10. TIMOTHY D L Says:

    I am going to assume you are a woman! The biggest sexual organ in our body is the mind. Sex just for sex isn’t all that stimulating, My guess is that you have suffered a sexual trauma in your life, and that you are still hanging on to that. You have to get over what happened to you, and learn that sex can, and is fun!

    See someone.

  11. pookie Says:

    don’t listen to him…you should be in your prime…try watching an x rated video too…

  12. puppee55 Says:

    ummmmmmmm i must tell you i was 35 b4 i even knew. but then i knew. and it was 1 time with tongue..i was told it was an art……..BEAUTIFUL ART

  13. Beth Says:

    What you need is a good man! I just read about one in Men’s Health section (Yahoo). I think what you need, is one like him!
    I’m sure that would do the trick…
    You just can’t beat the real thing.

  14. tom c Says:

    are you married?if yes than the ans should be diffrent ? plz tell me.

  15. yalmama Says:

    do a sexual intercourse first

  16. ponysteel Says:

    You need to be in the right frame of mind before you masturbate if you are going to succeed in achieving an orgasm. Wait until you feel really horny and then spend a little time revisiting your wildest sexual fantasies before you touch your genital area. When you feel ready to move on, start by stimulating yourself until you are as wet as you get, then proceed to your clitoris. Retract your clitoral prepuce (foreskin) and look to see the head come free, then work round the rim with your finger until you need to speed up. Keep going in circular motions until you feel your orgasm begin to build – do NOT stop now; go on and you will explode into orgasm. Once you have done it successfully, you will want to repeat the experience regularly. Anyway, that is how my wife masturbates as part of our sex play. Try it and good luck

  17. learner Says:

    there are so many hunter…. if u will be a good fish, u will learn what that is.


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