If not, then why do we all know that women can have multiple orgasms – but so few realise a man can also have multiple orgasms?
In fact, I’ve seen many feminists claim the female ability to have multiples as something to show off about – clearly this indicates their absolute lack of knowledge for male sexuality.
Women and men are taught about female ability for multiple orgasm – but neither men or women are taught about men’s ability.
Why the focus on women’s and ignorance towards mens’?
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September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
I actually think it’s kind of gross when women brag about it. One of those "Ok, hunny, no one cares" things.
But I think the reason that this is more discussed is because there’s such a variance with the female orgasm. There are many women that rarely orgasm, and then there’s women that can have multiples — kind of like polar opposites. On the other hand, it’s uncommon for a man not to have an orgasm (if that’s wrong, please provide a source that says otherwise because I don’t want to be making false claims!).
Personally, in my relationship it’s more a giving thing. In other words, his pleasure is more important to me and mine is more important to him. I’d like to think that this is the case for most couples.
Then again, I’m all for equality so I wouldn’t call myself a feminist.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
according to feminists, the women’s pleasure is more important
EDIT: winter……"ahem" worst answer
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Why is masturbation talked about in sex-separate health classes with young boys but it’s never even mentioned to young girls?
Multiple orgasms in males is only just recently being studied. It’s not something that is widely known for various reasons. Several men aren’t even aware they can have multiples so it’s safe to assume their female partners aren’t aware either.
These are all disparities that will not be resolved unless we remove our puritanical beliefs towards sex and start openly discussing all aspects of human sexuality.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
This is becasue of the feminist and their ongoing plight to separate men and women. It will bite them in the but one day.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
In the confines of a healthy relationship, you put your partners sexual pleasure before your own.
Therefore his sexual pleasure is more important to me, and mine is more important to him. Together you both get what’s needed and then some.
And I have seen the multiple orgasm argument before, clearly those women have never been with a man who is capable of achieving them. Or perhaps they’re not capable of giving them.
(I hope that’s not too offensive, it wasn’t meant to be)
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Over the years I have developed the philosophy the "hers is more important"
Not for any altruistic reasons , but rather it makes it that much easier for me to get more next time.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Your sexuality is something to be expressed with your partner and something to learn about, it shouldn’t be but men do this and women do this blah blah blah. If you find someone you can have multiple orgasms with GREAT!! However i have never seen a feminist talk on behalf of every other woman in the world, maybe you see them talking about their own experiences with sex… you shouldn’t be so quick to jump to conclusions.
On another note, i have always been focused on both sex drives male and female, as i want to pleasure my partner and he does me. I think you are looking at a stereotype rather than truth i mean there is also a stereotype that women "fake it" "men only think about sex" "women hate sex" all these are bad!
On an even more disturbing note some schools/parents dont teach anything about sex, my school simply said (no joke) a man has a penis and a woman has a vagina if you dont use protection you will have a baby THATS IT! No details nothing about masturbation or condoms… so i think we (on behalf of my experience) that we should enlighten and teach rather than just point fingers.
Whether your gay, straight, male, female, swinger or a one partner person it doesnt matter as long as no one is getting hurt YAY for love. ha ha
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Ryde-On, I think you’ve discovered the secret to Peace and Happiness
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
I’ve never been with a man who stuck around for more than one. It’s pretty much always the same: guy comes, hoses off, then watches football or goes to sleep. I honestly did not know until I came on this board that men could have multiples, too. I guess I’ve always been stuck with the wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am kind of guys.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
You know considering a lot of women have a hard time reaching climax its kind of ridiculous to act like men are now victims in this regard. Id rather be a man when it comes to sex, cause id be guaranteed to get something!
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Is it possible for you to imagine relationships with women in other than adversarial terms?
Normal people in happy relationships care about each other and want their partner to have pleasure.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Well, why haven’t men talked about it, then? If so many men can just orgasm for hours, why haven’t they mentioned it? Men talk about sex freely, and are free from the social constraints regarding sexuality women face. So, tell me, why haven’t you men been shouting it to the roof tops that men can have multiple orgasms?
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
I think sexual pleasure is important for both parties. I personally love my boyfriend to pleasure me and I love to pleasure him back. I feel when both people enjoy themselves in bed, it makes the sex better. Plus I like my man to be satisfied.
And I never knew a feminist that have said things like that. And yes men can have multiple orgasms but it’s rare cuz normally after one or two, you get tired after awhile (cuz I don’t know about men on here but my boyfriend usually doesn’t bust a big one until after a half an hour or an hour).
Us as women get orgasms quicker than a male (if it’s good sex) which is why women getting multiple orgasms is focused on.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
i knew that men can have multiple orgasms. Actually i would argue that the opposite is true about what you say about sexuality. Untill about 40 years ago, sex was all about the man and HIS orgasm ie it was all about penetration. Thankfully, many men these days have discovered the clitoris and foreplay so that thier partners can orgasm as well. That way each partner’s orgasm is equally important.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Because ours are harder to have unlike most men…..LIke If a guy cant get me to cum first I stop …..I want pleasure just as much as he does
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
On a biological level the answer is obviously no.
On a human level for building a relationship it is important for both equally or you’re basically a bad lover, male or female.
September 12th, 2009 at 5:36 am
Don’t listen to these feminists, they are probably losers in life(fat n ugly)
Man’s sexual pleasure is more important, because men desire sex much more often.