This is so freaking embarrassing for me to have to ask. I’m 17 and I’ve heard that some girls my age can’t come yet. I have ALSO heard that "I will KNOW" so I am almost positive I have never experienced one. The embarrassing part is idk what to do. Like….duh there are lady parts down there that you have to touch, but when I get to this certain part I get this little tingly wave and then I stop. I cannot make myself continue, its so difficult to explain. It doesn’t hurt and just don’t know what to do next and I get really sensitive. Please don’t be an ass about this, cuz I really wanna know.
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May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
When it happens its true that you will know. You have to continue rubbing your clitoris even after it starts feeling tingly. just rub more gentle. the orgasm sometimes happens soon after it starts to feel too sensitive. also, you could get a vibrator. or you could also get ky intense which is a lubricant that intensifies the way that your clitoris feels making it easier to have an orgasm. you can actually have 20 orgasms using one drop. dont worry, eventually you will be able to orgasm. it might happen when you have sex. try watching porn while you masturbate to get to more excited. sorry if this was too detailed but i hope it helped.
also, if you are taking a shower and you have the type that you can remove the shower head, hold it to your clitoris and it feels really good.
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
The tingling wave is pure satisfaction. If you keep going, then you just may experience the feeling that everyone brags about . . .
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
Sounds to me like you are getting your self to the point of and orgasm and then you stop your self if you continue on you will experance one.
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
It’s a very common problem for women of all ages. I’m 39 and cannot have an orgasm unless I give it to myself. Give yourself time. With experience comes wisdom. Eventually you will figure out what works for you. Some women can only have clitoral orgasms while others can have that and vaginal(G spot) ones. I know it’s frustrating.
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
Well im a guy i dont have a vagina though i get the same feeling on my dick though let me explain. See whenever i have an orgasm my dick like tickles it feels good but i want to stop for a sec. i went to the doctor and he said cause my dick is above average size it can do that so maybe go to the doctor.btw your cute
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
some woman are not able to orgasm simply by touching, some need penetration as well. the best method for reaching an orgasm is by using one finger inside curling it up as if if saying (hey you, come over here), do this until you reach the upper wall then continue to do it while at the same time rubbing the other place which im sure you know by now. time frame till you "know" can vary but i would expect around 3-5 minutes. keep in mind not all woman have the crazy movie orgasm, every one is different
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
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May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
just keep going, even uf u wanna stop… girls can have several orgasms, so u probably will still be aroused after one orgasm
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
Nothing to be embarrassed about. There is a site to look up if you want to know more about female orgasm.
http://www.welcomed.com
Have fun…
May 14th, 2010 at 8:02 am
Wow, I am in the EXACT same position. I’ve tried and tried, nomatter how much I tell myself to keep going it just STOPS. I even get the little tingly wave.