I am an 18 year old girl who has not orgasmed yet, but know sheh as the potential too 
. I am very positive that one day I will have an orgasm if I maintain a positive attitude and continue to explore myself physically. My question is-I have been having sex since November, and masturbating since I was around 12 years old (although for much extended periods of time now), and since I do not orgasm, often I stop masturbating and I feel a very heavy feeling down there (due to the blood I suppose)-is this healthy, and does it impede my ability to orgasm?
To make things clear- I always masturbated with a pillow when I was young and when I felt the first "rush" of pleasure I would stop-I had no idea what an orgasm was or how to reach it, I would always just stop and I conditioned my body to get used to this. Thus, when I first found out what an orgasm was, I tried to continue to keep going through these rushes but it is hard for me to train mybody to get out of my old routine
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March 28th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
Yes very healthy, and try playing with your clitoris, it is the most sensitive area down there and it always makes me orgasm. If you don’t know what that is research it on the net, look for pictures.
March 28th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
I never feel "heavy" down there so this does not seem normal. You could try a vibrating toy, as this would probably make it a lot easier for you to reach orgasm.
March 28th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
just find a good boy that is really unstoppable about sex that will make you orgasm
March 28th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
You must have GREAT Willpower to manage to stop masturbating and therefore not giving yourself an Orgasm, for 6 years
Are you SURE you’ve Never Orgasmed ?