Look – I am not a typical stupid guy trying to talk himself up, this is a legit question: My fiancee tells me that she has orgasms very easily, and sometimes she gets off up to 8 times during a session. Is this in any way normal? There have been times we will have a "quicky" maybe 3-5 minutes, and she says she got off two, or even three times. Here is the problem: I can never really tell when she does because she isnt overly vocal (not a "screamer") – I guess I am being paranoid a little, but is it possible that this isnt true and she’s pandering to my ego? How long does it usually take a female to orgasm? Thanks for the help!!
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December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
Perfectly normal… lucky girl to! She is probably really sensitive to orgasm. There is no "SET" time limit to having an orgasm… EVERY woman is different, therefore it may be longer time and fewer of them for some and shorter and more for others and so on. If she is having multiple orgasms and not making much fuss about it during.. it is possible that they are not as intense as one that has time to "build up", but are more of them and just as satisfying. I sometimes have a "harder" orgasm then other times, or less intense and several. Again every woman is different and it is a very normal thing.
Think of things this way.. if she IS lying about it who is getting cheated ? Not you. So she has no real reason to lie about it.
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
yeah its possible, but dont get cocky, it doesnt really mean ur that great, it mostly just means her G spot is in an easliy accessable place
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
it’s normal, i can get up to 10 in 2 hours, it’s called multiple orgasm, so don’t worry, u’r girl is not sick!!! she’s very special!
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
The time it takes really, truly can vary from person to person. It’s quite possible she’s being honest- every single woman is truly different. And it’s definitely possible to have up to 8 orgasms or more.
The kind of sound she makes (or doesn’t) may have to do with the power of the orgasm, or the type of orgasm (sometimes clitorals are not as body-encompassing as g-spot orgasms). Or, it may just be how she functions.
For the most part i’d say that you don’t have much to worry about. If you and her have a honest, strong relationship, then your chances are pretty good that she isn’t just stroking your ego. Everything she’s told you is possible.
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
some women are very easily turned on and can orgasm rather quickly, but it is impossible for one to have 2 to 3 orgasms in a 3-5 minute session, it takes at least like 10-15
minutes normally, so i think she’s lying to you man.
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
IFshe’s telling the truth, she’s a lucky girl.
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
it depends on the person. but i could orgasm 3 times in ten minutes easily. dnt get paranoid, its a compliment. if you feel abit uneasy ask her if she could tell you n e thing she wants you to do and get her to tell you exactly how she wants it. she wont tell you what she wants unless you ask. x
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
It is normal? Well, it’s normal for her. Every woman is different. Some can orgasm easily and repeatedly, others don’t. It sounds like she is a very lucky girl. Try to just relax and enjoy. If she’s not complaining you have nothing to be worried about
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
She may have an exceptionally heightened sense of arousal, in which case, thank your lucky stars! Some women can’t or don’t orgasm during sex, no matter how hard their partners try to please.
It could be that she’s slightly exaggerating the results, but heck, even one orgasm is a victory for most guys! Enjoy the fact that she loves sex and loves you enough to enjoy it that much.
December 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
It is true that females can go many times, I would say that
after the first one though, the others are not as intense.
She’s lucky cause alot of women have trouble having one.