Female Ejackulation

OK I am trying to learn about sex. Not the "where do I put my penis" learning about sex, but the science and psychology of sex. To give you an idea of the information I am after here are a few things I want to know.

-What goes on in the body when two people are attracted to one another?
-Why are we attracted to the people we are attracted too?
-What physical characteristics of the opposite sex are men/women attracted too? Why?
-What Happens in the human body during sex?
-How does sex differ from men and women? How are their experiences different, both physical and emotional?
-What are the most common fetishes/sexual fantasies for men/women?
-Why do Men/women have these fantasies/fetishes?
-What happens in the body when climax/orgasm is reached?
-Also is it possible for a male to have multiple climaxes/orgasms? If so how?
-Common male/female "hot spots" or "erogenous zone"?

I have many many other similar questions. OK so here is want I want from you Guys/girls at Yahoo Answers? Can you give me a Title of a book/books that cover these topics? Please I would prefer something written by a educated individual ( by this I mean the author went to College and has a degree). Also It would be great if it was written in Laymen’s terms.

I would also except answers in the form of links too Websites (Which are written and controlled by experts not just any loser with a computer), Video links to documentaries and/or lectures, and Podcasts (again created by an expert not any person who thinks they are a "sex god").

Thank you so very much for your time and I look forward to reading your replies.

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